We, humans, are always on a quest for “knowing”. There seems to be a common thread meandering through each stage of our life; one that is knotted with segments representing ‘the next likely step’. When we are young we anticipate going to school; as teens, we understand the next step is high school; then comes […]
It’s 9 am and you just sat down at your desk with a warm cup of coffee in hand to look at your client emails. Your heart starts racing as you finish reading. “Yikes!” You just got an email from a client who pointed out mistakes you made. You spend the rest of the day […]
Sunday – both a relaxing final half of the weekend and a day that can be filled with nerves or anxiety about the week ahead. Whether you get the Sunday Scaries or look forward to your Sunday all week, these self-care activities will help you set the tone for the week. Use the self-care ideas […]
The other night I had a thought-provoking dream. It was a dream with a recurring theme about snakes. Since the beginning of 2021, I’ve been dreaming frequently about snakes (EEEK, I know right?). The interesting part of these dreams is that even on the occasions where I couldn’t recall a snake in that night’s dream, […]
Tired of relying on people’s opinions to make a decision? Or missing on incredible opportunities because you always think you are not prepared or good enough? When you don’t feel confident, you may not trust yourself or your abilities and end up not taking action, causing you to feel stuck in life. That’s exactly why […]
If the title of this post caught your interest, I’m willing to bet you might be feeling stuck in some area of your life. We all walk through these phases, so first, let me emphasize that it’s okay to feel stuck sometimes. Whether you’re stuck in your career, personal growth journey, entrepreneurial journey, or anywhere […]
Since launching my business, Cacti Wellness Collective, about a year ago, let’s just say there have been some looooong nights. While I’m not glorifying the idea of #teamnosleep, I understand the feeling of always having more work to do and/or not having enough minutes in the day. That being said, after going HARD on late […]
Do you know what’s absolutely crazy? That today, being in debt is more normal than not being in debt! When I told coworkers that I was completely debt-free – none of them believed me or denied that this was possible for someone so young to be debt-free. It was harder to tell them, due to […]
When was the last time you were bored? Like, really bored? For most of us, it was during childhood. Between our phones, computers, and never-ending to-do lists, there’s always a distraction to keep us from falling into true boredom. The result of all those distractions is mental clutter. The nonstop notifications and unessential to-dos add […]
Hey! I’m Ché Elizaga Castro (pronounced “Shea” like the Butter, not Guevara). I believe you were made to come alive in your unique gifts + audacious vision, and that the best way to do this is through telling better stories — to yourself, and to others. That is why I founded Come Alive Co: a […]
The majority of teachings centered around pleasure teach through a lens of sexuality. The popularization of tools such as jade eggs, crystal vaginal wands, and experiencing different orgasmic states has been steadily increasing. However, pleasure does not start with our sex organs and when we view pleasure this way, we skip over the important basics […]
It’s well known that knowing other business owners, and connecting with them consistently, can bring value to your business, help you get more clients and customers, benefit your social life, and help your overall happiness level. Building relationships is key to scaling your business and with this Covid pandemic still, all around, we just can’t […]